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The Nightstand · Buying Guides

How to Buy Lingerie You’ll Actually Wear

The OCA Editors · · 5 min read

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Bodysuits, babydolls, chemises and sets — a quick guide to styles, fit and buying lingerie as a gift.

The best lingerie is the kind that makes you feel good the moment you put it on. Start with the silhouette you love, then get the fit right.

Know the styles

Bodysuits and teddies are one piece. Babydolls and chemises are short, loose slips that flatter most shapes. Bralette and panty sets mix and match, and robes are easy to size.

Garters, stockings and harness-style pieces are great for layering over what you already own.

Check the size chart

Sizing varies by brand. Check the size information on each product page and, if you’re between sizes, stretchier styles are more forgiving.

Buying it as a gift

If you don’t know their size, choose stretchy or adjustable styles such as babydolls, chemises and robes. Then pair it with something for the two of you to enjoy together.

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