A Straightforward Guide to Men’s Sex Toys

Men’s toys fall into three main families. Knowing which one you want makes shopping fast.

Strokers & masturbators

Sleeves and strokers vary in texture, tightness and whether they vibrate. Use the lube the manufacturer recommends; water-based is the safe default.

Cock rings

Rings are often used with a partner, and some include a vibrating element for them too. Adjustable or stretchy rings are the easiest to start with. Follow the manufacturer’s guidance on how long to wear one.

Prostate massagers

These are curved to reach the prostate. Start slowly, use plenty of lube and choose a toy designed for anal use with a flared base.