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The Nightstand · Intimacy

Better Together: Couples Toys 101

The OCA Editors · · 6 min read

Two hands intertwined on wine silk sheets

How to introduce a toy into your relationship without it being weird. (It won’t be weird.)

Toys aren’t a replacement for anyone. They’re an invitation. Here’s how to bring one into the bedroom with ease.

Shop together

Browsing together takes the pressure off and turns the decision into foreplay.

Pick a shared toy

Wearable vibrators, couples rings and remote or app-controlled toys are designed for two. Check each product description for how it’s meant to be used.

Keep it light

Laugh if something doesn’t work the first time. The best part of trying something new is trying it together.

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